To toy or not to toy?

That is the question.

I've been slowly planting the bug in her head about introducing sex toys to our bedroom. As I'm sure you've started to gather, she's not incredibly experimental sexually and likes what she likes. She had one before and loved it apparently, but we don't have one now.

I've always liked spicing things up in the bedroom and exploring other ways of getting off, and vibrators (both on me and on the girl) are a perfect option.

Not knowing what she liked when we started talking about it, I suggested something like this:





In talking with her, she wants something like this:


I really can't blame her, honestly. It's much less threatening and more approachable. Besides, she's not really interested in anything besides me going inside. I'm thinking of surprising her with this for Christmas.

I don't know why I'm hesitating so badly on this...